bill cosby said it.

"I don’t know the key to success, but the key to failure is trying to please everybody."
i have to stop trying to impress everyone. & i have to start making MYSELF the biggest priority. i can't keep trying to catch someone's eye. i'll just do me & if they happen to glance then that's that. but from now on, i'm focusing more on me. what i like to do, what makes ME happy, what i've been longing for, everything. i'm sorry if that means i might need time away from others, but i'm really desperate to find myself again. & i tihnk i'm almost there....almost. still not sure who i am, but it takes time. & when i do find myself, i'll be confident about it. i'll know EXACTLY who i am, thnak you very much.